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zeke wrote:

Oh Clean, I’m just seeing your note. Prayers for you. I hope things are going better for you today. 
Hugs! 🤗

Thank you so much......I’m dealing with a family member who is a complete and utter narcissist who won’t take responsibility for their actions. There’s been a lot of family drama over the past few years. I went no contact a while back because I didn’t appreciate that she was trying to pit me against other family members. She told me I wouldn’t think those people were so loving towards me if I knew what they had said about me.....and that was what she said in her last email to me 3 years ago. I did email her after a bit. My husband and I decided to go to Quebec where she lives to visit her. She said she was too emotionally fragile due to her being sick, so we didn't go. Then last week out of the blue, she emails me and basically tells me all the terrible things that were said about me and my kids. I guess she had been festering for a while. I know she twisted the truth to fit her narrative, but still her words hurt me. Then she attacked other family members. My daughter called her and explained that if she wanted to reconcile she wasn’t going to get too far. Oh....and she has stage 4 lung cancer. Any way, this is just the tip of the iceberg. There’s so much more to this story. It really has me frazzled.

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