While attending a Marriage Seminar dealing with communication, Tom and his wife, Grace, were paying close attention to what the instructor had to say.  "It is essential that husbands and wives know each other's likes and dislikes."  He turned to the man and addressed him personally.  "Can you name your wife's favorite flower?"  Tom leaned over, touched Grace's arm tenderly and whispered, "It's Pillsbury, isn't it?"